For The Love Of Words: Letter to My Daughter by Maya Angelou

I recently read Maya Angelou’s Letter to My Daughter. It was a short read, but also a beautiful and empowering one. Within just over 100 pages, Angelou writes of life experiences that have taught her valuable lessons and dedicates the collection to all of the women she’s been a mother to throughout her lifetime. Here are some of my favourite quotes from her stories:

“You may not control all the events that happen to you, but you can decide not to be reduced by them.”

 

“The ensuing years have taught me that a kind word, a vote of support is a charitable gift. I can move over and make another place for someone. I can turn my music up if it pleases, or down if it is annoying.”

 

“I came to understand that I can never forget where I came from. My soul should always look back and wonder at the mountains I had climbed and the rivers I had forged and the challenges which still await down the road. I am strengthened by that knowledge.”

 

“We have the brains and the heart to face our futures bravely. Taking responsibility for the time we take up and the space we occupy.”

 

“The ship of my life may or may not be sailing on calm and amiable seas. The challenging days of my existence may or may not be bright and promising. Stormy or sunny days, glorious or lonely nights. I maintain an attitude of gratitude. If I insist on being pessimistic, there is always tomorrow. Today, I am blessed.”

 

There is content in this book that would be appreciated by any human being, of any gender, from any walk of life. If you haven’t read it already, I would highly recommend this short and sweet collection for an end-of-summer read.

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For The Love of Words: The Night Circus

“Someone needs to tell those tales. When the battles are fought and won and lost, when the pirates find their treasures and the dragons eat their foes for breakfast with a nice cup of Lapsang souchong, someone needs to tell their bits of overlapping narrative. There’s magic in that. It’s in the listener, and for each and every ear it will be different, and it will affect them in ways they can never predict. From the mundane to the profound. You may tell a tale that takes up residence in someone’s soul, becomes their blood and self and purpose. That tale will move them and drive them and who knows what they might do because of it, because of your words. That is your role, your gift. Your sister may be able to see the future, but you yourself can shape it, boy. Do not forget that. There are many kinds of magic, after all.”

The Night Circus – it had captured my heart the moment I laid eyes on the black, white, and silver cover so many years ago, on a 30% off shelf located near the front doors of Chapters. Now, having finished it for the second time, I realize how twisted fate can be, bringing this story back to me in the time I needed it the most, taking me home to a place only thought up in the confines of the 387-page book.

If I had thought I loved it then, bringing it home, opening it, and finishing it overnight, I truly can’t explain the emotion I feel for it today. I can’t explain to you what this book is about, because in doing that I would ruin the story. As true to the title as any book has ever been, The Night Circus is a journey through a magical place, binding many together in a duel that most think will only end in sadness. But with the sadness comes a beauty that surpasses anything imaginable. With vivid description, Erin Morgenstern puts the reader into the Circus; you can smell the caramel and popcorn as you sit in your room at night, a candle flickering on your bed stand only adding to the atmosphere of the multitude of tents featuring Ice Garden’s, a mysterious Labyrinth, living statues, and so much more.

I can honestly say The Night Circus is one of the best works of fiction I have ever read, born from this century, or ones past. Fantasy, romance, magic, I will love this book until the end of time and I will never stop loving the magical black and white, with the splash of red. I hope, should you read this book as well, you find the same magic in the pages as I did. It reinvigorated my love of reading, as I passed the last few days unable to put it down. There is much I love, and many lines I couldn’t stop rereading, but here I leave you with just a few, maybe enough to capture the same magic in you. Happy reading lovelies.

“Why haven’t you asked me how I do my tricks?” Celia asks, once they have reached the point where she is certain he is not simply being polite about the matter.
Friedrick considers the question thoroughly before he responds.
“Because I do not wish to know,” he says. “I prefer to remain unenlightened, to better appreciate the dark.”

“Widge can see the past,” Poppet says suddenly, diverting the conversation. “It’s one of the reasons his stories are always so good.”
“The past is easier,” Widget says. “It’s already there.”
“In the stars?” Bailey asks.
“No,” Widget says. “On people. The past stays on you the way powdered sugar stays on your fingers. Some people can get rid of it but it’s still there, the events and things that pushed you to where you are now. I can…well, read isn’t the right word, but it’s not the right word for what Poppet does with the stars, either.”

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For the Love of Words: Mindy Kaling

I recently finished reading Is Everyone Hanging Out Without Me? (And Other Concerns) by Mindy Kaling. I don’t often pick up autobiographical or humour books, but I’ve found myself irrevocably in love with Mindy Kaling since I started watching The Mindy Project and had to give this one a read. It did not disappoint. I’m almost angry at myself for not reading this sooner. It came out in 2011 and I spent two years not knowing how smart and hilarious Mindy is. I thought I’d share a couple of my favourite excerpts from her book:

“My body mass index is certainly not ideal, I frequently use my debit card to buy thing that cost less than three dollars, because I never have cash on me, and my bedroom is so untidy it looks like vandals ransacked the Anthropologie Sale section. I’m kind of a mess.”

“(The Exactly Level of Fame I want)
Batshit Stuff I Wear is Immediately Considered Fashionable
I want to rock harem pants or black lipstick like Gwen Stefani does and have people be like, ‘That’s jut Mindy,’ and then everyone starts doing it.””

“I really do have a remarkable appetite. I remember when the news reports came out about Michael Phelps’s ten-thousand-calorie-a-day diet, and everyone was so shocked. But I just thought, yep, I could do that, no problem.”

(Strict Instructions for My Funeral)
No current wives or girlfriends of my exes are allowed to attend. This part is really, for real, non-negotiable. They’ll just use the opportunity to look all hot in black.”

“*Notice how I laid in all that dramatic irony here? Like in Titanic, when Kate Winslet’s character loved those weird paintings by a little-known artist named Picasso? And in the audience of the theatre you were laughing to yourself because you knew Picasso turned out to be kind of a big deal? I’m trying to tell you that I’m Picasso.”

“(Karaoke Etiquette)
And it kind of behooves you to pick a short song. I don’t care if Don freakin’ McLean shows up in a red-white-and-blue tuxedo, no one is allowed to sing ‘American Pie.’ It’s actually kind of hostile to a group of partiers to pick a song longer than three minutes.”

(Best Friend Rights and Responsibilities)
“I will try to like your boyfriend five times. This is a fair number of times to hang out with your boyfriend and withhold judgement.”

(Steve Carell is Nice but it is Scary)
“Later I would privately theorize that he never involved himself in gossip because — and I am 99 percent sure of this — he is secretly Perez Hilton”

I hope this collection of quotes kick starts your love of Mindy Kaling and that you go out to buy this book as soon as you possibly can. And I hope that upon finishing the book, you binge-watch The Mindy Project and start to bring up Mindy in all conversations as if she’s a new guy you’ve just started dating. That may seem absurd to you now, but you’ll understand soon enough.

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For the Love of Words: John Green

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In celebration of one of my favourite authors being named one of Time Magazine’s 100 Most Influential People in the World in 2014, I thought I’d share some of my favourite excerpts and quotes of his. John Green is a 30-something young-adult fiction writer from Indianapolis, IN. He is a Printz Award-winning and New York Times bestselling author, his most well-known books being Looking for Alaska (2005) and The Fault in Our Stars (2012). He is also involved in several projects with his brother, Hank Green, including (but certainly not limited to) the Vlogbrothers YouTube channel, VidCon, and Project for Awesome – a community-building project that takes over YouTube once a year to raise money for charities (their fundraising goal last year was $100,00 and they ended up raising $869,171!)

Shailene Woodley will be acting in the lead role of the film adaptation of The Fault in Our Stars (set to be released June 6th!) and wrote a short article for the Time 100 about John Green. She completes the piece with true and beautiful words: “He sees people with curiosity, compassion, grace, and excitement. And he’s encouraging a huge community of followers to do the same. What a gift to be alive at the same time as this admirable leader.”

Here is a collection of some of my favourite John Green quotes:

I’m in love with you, and I’m not in the business of denying myself the simple pleasure of saying true things. I’m in love with you, and I know that love is just a shout into the void, and that oblivion is inevitable, and that we’re all doomed and that there will come a day when all our labor has been returned to dust, and I know the sun will swallow the only earth we’ll ever have, and I am in love with you.

– The Fault in Our Stars

Thomas Edison’s last words were “It’s very beautiful over there.” I don’t know where there is, but I believe it’s somewhere, and I hope it’s beautiful.

– Looking for Alaska

Here’s my advice: study broadly and without fear; learn a language if you can because that will make you life more interesting; read a little bit everyday. But most importantly, try to surround yourself with people you like and make cool stuff with them. In the end, at least in my experience, what you do isn’t going to be nearly as interesting or important as who you do it with.

– What To Do With Your Life | vlogbrothers

Maybe there’s something you’re afraid to say, or someone you’re afraid to love, or somewhere you’re afraid to go. It’s gonna hurt. It’s gonna hurt because it matters.

– Will Grayson, Will Grayson

But it is the nature of stars to cross, and never was Shakespeare more wrong than when he has Cassius note, “The fault, dear Brutus, is not in our stars / But in ourselves.”

– The Fault in Our Stars

I hope you take the time this summer to familiarize yourself with John Green’s writing and projects. He’s really just an incredibly admirable and inspiring human being. Happy Tuesday!

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Spring Has Sprung: The Essentials

It has been so beautiful in my city for the past couple of weeks! Although we’ve been revisited by an occasional snowfall, I feel like it’s safe to say that spring has finally sprung! To celebrate, I thought I’d share with all of you a couple of sunny, flowery, and practical products for the season from some of my favourite stores. What better way to ring in the spring with a little bit of online shopping? Especially if you live in a city like mine — with a five (sometimes almost six) month winter, it eventually becomes a sort of necessity to start ushering the spring into your wardrobe/home before it’s quite ready to reveal itself outside!SpringFinaly1. Rubber Boots
I actually just bought my first pair of rain boots and I can’t believe it took me so long! I love them so much – jumping in puddles without having to worry about wet feet is the best. I personally own Hunters but I went shopping with a friend recently and saw these Steven Madden Riding Boots – we immediately fell in love with the buckles and red detailing.

2. Sunnies
I love Free People sunnies, especially these ones! Not only do they have a relatively wide selection of unique and fashionable sunglasses, but they’re also really reasonably priced.

3. FloralFloralFloral
What says spring better than flowers? Floral may not be groundbreaking in regards to spring fashion, but it’s definitely one of my favourite seasonal trends. One floral item is all you need to bring some sunshine into your outfit — I especially love this kimono from Urban Outfitters!

4. Umbrella
This Hunter umbrella is not only practical for rainy spring weather — it’s pretty cute too!

5. Statement Ring
Actually a staple for any season, but it’s spring so treat yourself to something new and unique! I love this one from Urban Outfitters.

6. Light-Weight Scarf
It’s finally time to pack up those thick knit scarves and trade them in for something more warm-weather appropriate! I love this one from Aritzia — it’s light-weight and oversized. Aritzia scarves may be a bit pricey but from my experience, the quality is always worth it!

7. Vases
I think that the loveliest way to bring spring into your home is to fill it with colourful, pretty flowers. But you’ll need something equally as pretty to put those flowers in! There’s a huge selection of beautiful vintage and home-made vases on Etsy — my favourite are these painted wooden ones that come in a set of three!

8. A Good Book
With spring comes the closing of another school year for us university students. For some, that means wanting to avoid all printed word for the entirety of the summer. For others, that means being able to set down those textbooks and read whatever it is your heart desires. If you enjoy YA Fiction as much as I do, I suggest you try reading John Green’s The Fault in Our Stars. It’s an incredibly smart and beautiful story — John Green is one of my favourite writers (actually, people). The movie adaptation is also set to be released in June! The screenplay was written by Scott Neustadter & Michael H. Weber (500 Days of Summer), scored by Bright Eyes, and is starring Shailene Woodley and Ansel Elgort — I am SO excited.

Happy Spring, everyone!

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